Philadelphia Cadets Get Straight Talk About Job Pitfalls

By PATRICK WALTERS

Associated Press Writer

PHILADELPHIA --

The rows of Philadelphia police cadets grew quiet as grainy video rolled across a screen before them: Shocking footage of a transit officer in Oakland, Calif., fatally shooting a suspect in the back as the man was being held down on a train platform.

"Sir, did the officers see a gun?" a cadet asked after it ended. After a lieutenant said "No," the recruit shook his head at the example of what not to do.

On Monday, 166 Philadelphia Police Academy cadets graduated and got their badges. This year, with police scrutiny high nationwide, they first got a dose of straight talk about pitfalls that have derailed recruits. In other big cities, training touches on such topics, but Philadelphia now has a more direct, all-inclusive approach: What can get you fired?

The Guardian Civic League, a group of black officers, presented a program called "Steer Straight" to the class last week. Veteran officers spent seven hours telling them all about what could ruin their careers - domestic violence, improper use of lethal force, alcohol abuse, accepting freebies on the job and more.

"It takes one slip to lose everything you've worked so hard for," Inspector Cynthia Dorsey, who heads up the internal affairs division, told the class.

With about 6,700 officers, the Philadelphia Police Department is the nation's fourth- largest force - behind New York, Chicago and Los Angeles.

The Guardian Civic League presented the program to active officers last year. But the group's president, Rochelle Bilal, worried young recruits weren't hearing enough from seasoned veterans, and Commissioner Charles Ramsey asked her to take it to cadets.

It has been a tough few years for the department, with seven officers killed in the line of duty since May 2006.

With the force on edge, commanders, community leaders and other law enforcement at the training cautioned that the mistakes of even a very few can tarnish the department's name.

In May 2008, about a dozen Philadelphia officers were caught on television video kicking, punching and beating three suspects at a traffic stop; the city later fired four and demoted several others.

"Don't even think about privacy," District Attorney Lynne Abraham told the cadets. "You are going to have to remember that everybody is watching you."

Cadets heard the story of the transit officer in Oakland who resigned after shooting the unarmed suspect on New Year's Day.

Johannes Mehserle was charged with murder in the shooting of Oscar Grant, 22, a suspect in a fight who had his hands behind his back and another officer kneeling on his neck when he was shot. Mehserle has pleaded not guilty; his attorney said he meant to reach for his Taser.

The cadets got words of warning about an ongoing federal investigation of four officers in Philadelphia's narcotics unit who are accused of falsifying search warrants; none has been charged, but each has been put on desk duty.

They heard about small-time corruption, too, like the case of a 15-year veteran in Daytona Beach who was fired after allegedly threatening Starbucks employees with slower response times if they refused to give him free drinks.

"The way the economy is, they won't have a problem letting you go," said Roosevelt Poplar, vice president of the Fraternal Order of Police, reminding the cadets they are on probation for a year. "Discipline in the police department is, I would say, at an all-time high."

On one day in April, Ramsey announced plans to fire five officers - including one accused of making derogatory racial remarks on a ride-along with a student journalist and two accused of using racial epithets while responding to a school disturbance.

Authorities in other large police departments say they cover many of the topics but not in an exclusive program.

In Los Angeles, cadets get extensive training about corruption, community policing and use of force, but nothing all in one place, said Officer Karen Rayner, a department spokeswoman. Rookies are paired with a training officer, who has at least three years experience.

In New York, recruits get training on many topics addressed in the Philadelphia program, but no single training geared toward everything that can get you fired.

"They cover it, but they cover in it in a way that they can say 'OK, we covered it. Let's move on,'" said Noel Leader, co-founder of the advocacy group 100 Blacks in Law Enforcement Who Care, who helped train recruits in New York before retiring as a sergeant in 2006.

Shortly before graduating, New York cadets get community relations training and hear the concerns of department critics firsthand, said Deputy Commissioner Paul J. Browne. Internal affairs also makes a general presentation at the academy; The NYPD also steps up training in certain areas as it becomes needed, Browne said.

Philadelphia cadets said "Steer Straight" at the very least gave them pause.

Anthony Herley, a 23-year-old Philadelphia native, said he couldn't imagine himself in any of the bad situations. He's dreamt of becoming an officer since his hopes for a football career fizzled in high school.

"I've got to feed my family," said Herley, the father of two boys, ages 1 and 4. "The last thing you want to do is mess things up. ... This is a dream come true."

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All about Michelle....

Just a little blog let you all know a little about myself:

My name is Michelle, I'm a 27 year old PROUD Police Wife to my husband of seven years Michael and PROUD Stay At Home Mom to my three year old twin toddlers Connor & Braden.
I was born and raised in Upstate NY (some would say Canada...and that is not far from the truth!) as was my husband. There are not many advantages in our small home town so my husband & I relocated to Hampton Roads, Virginia one month after the Sept 11th attacks in 2001.
After dating for two years, on the exact anniversary of our engagement Michael & I married on August 24, 2002 back home in New York.
Michael was hired by the Chesapeake Police Department at the end of 2003 and graduated the academy on August 24, 2004...yes there is a trend with us on August 24th!
Our miracle twins arrived amid a flurry of life threatening crisis's on March 11, 2006 and happily today Mommy and boys are all happy and healthy thanks in large part to our very own special hero, Mike, who saved the three of our lives on March 11, 2006 and turned what could have been a tragedy into a very happy occasion!
In summer 2007 Mike was award the Star Performer Award by the city in recognition of "outstanding service to the city" for a drug related plain clothes detail that he worked for six months. Last August Mike was promoted to the position of FTO (Field Training Officer) and has successfully trained three rookies. Mike recently became a state certified instructor and was recognized at a ceremony for five years of dedicated service to the city. He is currently in the application process for SWAT and K9.
As a SAHM the twins and I belong to two very active local play groups and keep insanely busy with all our little buddies at play dates and we enjoy going to parks, museums, the beach, the zoo, farms and pretty much any other place we can think of to check out!
In my spare time....(what is that!?!) I love to take pictures, scrapbook, craft, read and write. My favorite color is purple, I can't live without pizza and I'd go crazy if we didn't live near the ocean! I think that the bond we all share as Police Wives is priceless and I look forward to all of us being a wealth of support to one another!

So that's Michelle in a nutshell!
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About Desiree

Hello everyone! Im Desiree, Iam a Sahm/Photographer. I have 3 wonderful children. 2 girls and 1 boy. I have been married for 4 years now. We have been together for 5 years. My husband is a Sheriffs Deputy; he has been one for 11 years now. He works the night shift in the patrol unit.

We live in Sacramento California. We have both lived in California for the majority of our lives okay well he has his whole life except when he was in the military and I have my whole life except for the 6 months I lived in Las Vegas Nevada!

I love writing; always have; I write about some pretty random stuff; boring everyday stuff and a whole lot of nothing! Writing is my outlet for having a good or bad day! I have a personal blog  The Family Behind His Badge if you would like to check it out!

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Okaloosa County Deputy Needs A Kidney Transplant

A 20-year-veteran of the Okaloosa County Sheriff's Office continues to hit the streets while he waits for a life saving transplant.


Deputy Johnnie Briggs was diagnosed with polycystic kidney disease in 1998. He began dialysis earlier this month and gets the treatments three days a week. But he doesn't let that stop him from working his twelve hour shifts as a member of the traffic enforcement unit.


"I have good days and bad days," said Briggs. "But it does make you very, very tired".


Briggs needs a kidney transplant and is on the waiting list at Tulane University Hospital in New Orleans. But that could take a while. Patients typically spend three to seven years on the waiting list. In Florida alone, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services says more than 3,000 people are awaiting kidney transplants.


Briggs' girlfriend wants to donate one of her kidneys. but she's not a match.




Anyone who is interested in becoming a kidney donor is asked to contact Kim Thompson at kidneyforjohnnie@yahoo.com or 850.218.8818 for more information.
 
Article Courtesy of WKRG News.com
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Family Life

Law Enforcement Personnel and Family Life

There is nothing more rewarding than taking pride in yourself, your career, and your family. Law enforcement professionals want to help others and make a difference in the lives of those in need. However, as the years go by the concept of “helping people” looses its glamour. Seeing people at their worst and a part of society that most do not see, can cause a negative effect. Law enforcement personnel and those in emergency services deal with trauma and crisis on a regular basis. Responding to crime scenes, car accidents, assaults, child abuse cases, disputes, domestics, being subjected to physical confrontations, internal investigations, and other types of difficult to handle situations are a part of what police officers do on a daily basis. Police work is a physically and emotionally draining job. Repeated exposure to negative images and interactions affect the overall physical, psychological, emotional, and spiritual well being of police officers spilling over in to their personal lives drastically impacting their families.



Law enforcement personnel are required to problem solve for others daily. Many of the situations that police officers face require them to maintain control, remain professional, and show little emotion which is difficult to do in stressful or traumatic situations. It requires the ability to silence true feelings and emotions adding additional challenges to an already highly stressful occupation. Work related stress associated with police work leads to numerous issues including post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, anxiety, alcoholism, substance abuse, suicide, domestic violence, divorce, and other addictions and problems. Unresolved trauma affects work, personal relationships, the way we parent, and our quality of life. Police officers are at risk of work-family spillover when officers are not able to differentiate between their work self and home self. All of these issues filter down to the officer’s family life.


As people have changed and evolved through time, so has the definition of family. One way we define family is to say that family are the people we go to for support. With this new concept of family in mind, the reality is that all people need support. In essence, we can not go through life alone without the support of loved ones. Our family support network is made up of many people including relatives, parents, siblings, partners/spouses, children, friends, and co-workers. Knowing when and where we find support is essential in our journey through the different stages of life. Gaining knowledge through experience, preparing for future challenges, and identifying and utilizing support systems keeps families healthy, thriving, and functioning as a unit.

Police families and the need for support

Our culture tends to turn away from those who are suffering or experiencing crisis. The common message is that people are expected to “get over it”. This is exhibited within the police culture as well. Police officers rely on each other for safety and strength. Expressing sadness, fear, or indecisiveness leads other officers and members of society to question a police officer’s level of competence. Police officers can get caught up in suppressing their feelings causing them to compartmentalize or put away their true emotions. This puts them at risk of either releasing their emotions inappropriately at a later time, or dismissing them. This can lead to several other issues including emotional instability, anger, social withdrawal, detachment, and isolation.


Think of a time when you were feeling stressed, emotionally drained, or physically spent. What techniques or behaviors did you use to reduce your stress? Often times we turn to techniques that we have used in the past which have given us relief. However, there is a difference between temporary relief and healing. It is easy to engage in a cycle of behaviors that may seem harmless but if used in excess have the potential to be damaging. It is important to be mindful of what we have used previously, and the degree of effectiveness it has had. Patterns of negative behaviors form when unresolved issues are not dealt with leaving us vulnerable to future emotional instability.

The different ways in which we reduce stress are unending. Still, we need to focus on long term stress reduction and maintenance. The key is having the ability to decipher which practices are healthy and which ones are harmful. Some common techniques that people use are drinking, television watching, video game playing, computer usage, or viewing pornography. Occupying our mind and time with certain distractions keeps us from dealing with the issues that are causing harm. Other coping mechanisms such as substance abuse, unhealthy or over eating, over spending, and gambling are also damaging. Temporary solutions do not allow us to heal. They provide a quick fix keeping us afloat enough to manage our daily tasks.

Reaching out, identifying resources, and using our support systems build resilience against life’s challenges that we face on a daily basis. Support comes from family members, co-workers, mental health and medical professionals, support groups, educators, clergy, neighbors, book resources, periodicals, internet web sites, as well as many other places. Identifying when we need support combined with the confidence to seek out applicable resources improves our chances of overcoming future family related stressors and promotes healthy and functioning families.

Why is family life important?

Our physical, emotional, and mental well being affects our family members, especially our partners/spouses and children. Our experiences, thoughts, words, actions, perceptions, feelings, and emotions create our individual belief system affecting how we interact and communicate with others. Communication is crucial in maintaining healthy personal relationships and family functioning. How we manage stress is also a factor in maintaining a healthy family life and thriving career. Making note of what stress management techniques work for us and utilizing them regularly is an ideal way of guarding against future challenges. Building resilience against crisis and stress strengthens our ability to serve the communities we work for, and better yet, our own families.

Some ways to reduce stress are eating healthy, exercising, journaling, talking with a friend, spending time with loved ones, working on a favorite hobby, spending time outdoors, using breathing techniques or visualization, listening to soothing music, being intimate with your partner, taking a bath as well as many other ways. One of the best ways to reduce stress is spending quality family time. The wonderful thing about stress management techniques is that they can be incorporated with family bonding.

Building family ties through rituals, traditions, and social involvement strengthens family relationships and attachments. Some great ways to achieve these things are family trips, outings, bike rides, hikes, playing games, celebrating special occasions, family meals, attending community events, and having regular family meetings. Open communication, being a good listener, practicing patience, accepting criticism, avoiding defensiveness, admitting mistakes, showing forgiveness, and providing encouragement and support to our family members are some ideal ways that we promote quality family life. Family life is important because we need the mutual support of our family to be fulfilled.

Moving forward and embracing change

As we take our journey through life, we create our legacy. Our legacy being, the beliefs, qualities, traits, or attributes we pass on to those we are closest to. Ask yourself, if today was the last day of my life, what would I leave behind? How would my family, friends, and the people that knew me remember me? You can also ask yourself, am I the best family member, partner, spouse, parent, police officer, co-worker or friend I can be? Do others look to me for guidance? Am I a good leader or role model? By asking ourselves these challenging questions and reflecting on our answers, we can take the necessary steps towards identifying the changes we want to make.

The reality is we are not truly capable of taking care of others, until we have cared for ourselves. It is never too late to make the conscious decision to improve who you are. Sometimes, the smallest changes can be the most difficult, yet the most rewarding. Knowing that change does not happen overnight is also important to keep in mind. Overcoming behaviors or habits that we have practiced for years, or perhaps over the course of our life, will take a deal of time. However, happiness comes from living a life that makes us feel comfortable with the person that we are.

There is nothing more humbling than admitting to yourself that you need help. We are all works in progress, a job that is never ending. There is never a point in anyone’s life where one can say, I am the best person I can be. Point being, we all need help at different times in our life. Once we can understand this concept, we can accept our weaknesses, learn from them, move forward, and open ourselves up to positive changes. Embracing change allows us to be more willing to seek out the resources that can help improve our self awareness. It is never too late to make changes that positively impact our lives, as well as the lives of those who are closest to us.



Information for this article was provided by: Law Enforcement Family Support

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Aliases Hinder Probe of Houston Officer's Slaying

By MICHAEL GRACZYK
Associated Press Writer

HOUSTON --

Four people police say were involved in the fatal shooting of a Houston police officer this week are illegal immigrants and have multiple aliases that are complicating the investigation.

Two suspects are charged with capital murder in the slaying of 42-year-old Officer Henry Canales. He was working undercover on a stolen property sting operation when he was gunned down Tuesday night. The alleged shooter was shot and killed by police; three other suspects were caught a short time later.
Andres Maldonado Nava, 41, had at least eight aliases and multiple arrests in California, authorities said Thursday. Robert Pedroza Carrillo, 37, who was killed in the gunfire, had three aliases. Both men are from Mexico.

Xiomara Rosales Mendez, 36, of Honduras, also is charged, along with a Mexican-born female authorities said is claiming to be a juvenile.

Each of the suspects has sought legal help from their consulates, officials said.

Conviction on the capital murder charge carries a penalty of life in prison or death. Harris County District Attorney Pat Lykos said it was too early to say if prosecutors would seek the death penalty.

"The investigation has been made a little more difficult because of the difficulty in ascertaining the true identity of the suspects," said Harris County prosecutor Julian Ramirez. "Each one of them has used multiple names. Officers have to contend with that as they attempt to find out the true history of the suspects."

Homicide Capt. Steve Jett said Carrillo was arrested by the Border Patrol in El Paso in 1997, went before an immigration judge and was returned to Mexico. It's not certain how long he'd been in Houston. When he was arrested in El Paso, he gave the name of Bernardo Diaz Ruiz.

Maldonado Nava had multiple arrests in California under at least eight names. Among the arrests were attempted murder, robbery, assault, theft, drugs and firearms violations.

Officials said Canales, a 16-year police veteran, was shot as Carrillo attempted to hijack a truck that contained televisions that was used as bait by undercover officers working a sting operation targeting groups selling and buying large amounts of stolen merchandise.

"They came with money and they were interested and they wanted to purchase goods that we told them were stolen," police Lt. Scott Dombrowski said. "At that point, things went horribly wrong and became tragic."

The two adult suspects were set for an initial court appearance Friday.

Canales' funeral was set for Monday.

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"A Tribute to a Cop's Wife"

By Captain Harvey C. Hines
Honey, I'm sure you've heard at times during our married life,
From those who ask. Aren't you proud to be a policeman's wife?
But Honey, let me say this: it's you I'm proud of, and they would be, too.
If only they could see what it takes to be one and what she has to go through.
To be a lawman, it's no easy task to do what we have to do.
But it's a much harder job to be his wife, and it takes someone special like you.
And I know God chose you to be with me in this life.
Because he knew you had the quality and strength to be a cop's wife.
Some may say that I have courage and I'm a hero and that sort of thing;
And when I hear it, this thought to my mind it always brings:
It's you Honey, you're the courage behind this man's badge, don't you see;
And it's you Hon', who's the real hero, not me.
And I know you get lonely and frustrated at times and wonder if it's worth it all;
But if you ever left me, this "brave courageous hero" would be no man at all.
And I know you worry about the temptations I face on the streets,Of the women of the night and girls that I meet.
But let me tell you this, Honey, and you listen good:
There's nobody on this earth who could replace you, they certainly never could.
And I know there are times when I go to work and you kiss me goodbye,
That you must worry and wonder if this is the day I've been chosen to die.
And Honey, if that should ever happen and someday become true,
Remember, Hon', my very last thoughts on this earth will be of you.
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